MEN, please tell me...?

What is it with men and their women? Would they rather have a lady who is at home all the time.....cut off from the world...cooking cleaning..dadadadaaa..so on and so forth....or do they really DEEP down inside love the women who has all the friends...likes to go out...and has a idk, busy life. Because that's what I had when we met...and I have completely just DUMBED down for him almost it seems like. He doesen't like to do much...but he doesen't care...he just likes being with me...and i feel like if the realtionship doesen't work out, I'm 19 on the 4th...and I feel like later...I will truly regret just sitting by....